The Cheating Boyfriend Test: Is There Such a Thing?

Are you a female who thinks that your boyfriend is cheating on you?  If you do, you may be looking to reaffirm that your suspicions are true.  While many other women in your shoes turn to spying on their boyfriend or the hiring of a private investigator, you may be interested in taking a cheating boyfriend test.  But wait, is there even such a thing?

                     

Yes, there are tests that are called cheating boyfriend tests.  They may also be referred to as cheating boyfriend quizzes.  As for what they are, you will find that it depends.  They tend to target teenagers and young adults, like college students.  As for how they help you determine if your boyfriend is cheating, it is done by asking a series of questions.  Your answers to these questions will have an impact on your score, which means that your boyfriend may be cheating on you.

Although cheating boyfriend tests do sound kind of fun and neat, there are some important things you should know about them.  You do not want to make the mistake of breaking up with your boyfriend, especially if you are in a long-term relationship, just because someone’s boyfriend test says that yours is cheating.  This may end up being an embarrassing and costly mistake on your part.

The questions that are found on most cheating boyfriend tests are simple.  In fact, you could say that they are too simple.  Common questions asked include does he accuse you of cheating?  Has your boyfriend changed his appearance?  Has your boyfriend started hanging out more with his friends?  Although these questions do signal the sign of a cheater, they are not guarantees.

Speaking of no guarantees, that is why you are urged to proceed with caution.  Just because a boyfriend cheating test claims that your boyfriend does cheat, it really doesn’t mean that he does.  With that said, it also works the other way around too.  Basically, you should not invest too much into what a five question quiz tells you.  If you are truly suspicious of your boyfriend, consider approaching them and voicing your concerns.

Boyfriend cheating tests, although they do not have guarantees, are popular.  You should be able to find them online and free of charge.  There are, however, websites that want you to pay to take a cheating boyfriend quiz.  Do not do this, as it will likely end up being a waste of your money.  If you do want to do a cheating boyfriend quiz, perform a standard internet search with the phrases “cheating boyfriend test,” or “free cheating boyfriend tests.”

In keeping with costs, it is important to avoid cheating boyfriend tests that can be sent to your cell phone.  Most of these cell phone text messaging programs, like ones that allow you to receive jokes and horoscopes, are money wasters.  In fact, they could even be considered scams.  To get a boyfriend quiz delivered to your cell phone, you may have to pay a monthly or a text message fee.  You may not even get the results until paying even more money.  Stay away from these traps.

It is also important to note that boyfriend cheating tests, especially those that you find online, are not developed by professionals.  Yes, professional relationship experts do have a serious of questions that resemble these quizzes, but most of what you will find online is written by everyday individuals, just like you and me.  For that reason, do not put too much into what your cheating boyfriend quiz results are, as the information is likely unreliable and not researched.

As a recap, cheating boyfriend tests are easy to find online, with a standard internet search.  Avoid having cheating boyfriend tests sent to your cell phone, as they can get costly.  As fun as cheating boyfriend tests can be to fill out, especially when surfing the internet with a bunch of your friends, remember to not rely too heavily on their results.

Behavior Changes that May Signal a Cheating Spouse

Do you think that your spouse is having an affair?  Many times, it can be very difficult to tell if your spouse is cheating on you.  Fortunately, many cheating spouses eventually show signs of being unfaithful, most of which are associated with their behavior. Outlined below are some signs that your spouse might be cheating on you.

Your spouse joins a gym.  This is a major sign when it is something that they never had any interest in doing so before.  If you never had a problem with your spouse’s weight before, why would you now?  This could be a sign that they are trying to impress someone besides you.

Your spouse does not have time to sit down and talk anymore.  Did and your spouse talk about their day?  If you never seem to have the deep or intense conversations that you once had, there may be a major problem.  Cheating spouses often try to distance themselves from their relationships at home.  This is a sign that your spouse may be cheating on you.

Your spouse may act differently during sex and want to try new things out in the bedroom.  If your spouse suddenly wants to try new things in the bedroom or if you just notice that the sex is different, they may be cheating.  In fact, you may be left wondering where they learned that from.

In keeping with sex, your spouse may want to have it less.  A decrease in sex frequency is a sign that your spouse may be cheating on you.  As for why sex occurs less when cheating is involved, they feel guilty about what they are doing or they may be getting enough sex already.

They may also get angry easier and more often.  Your spouse may also be touchy around you.  This may lead to more arguments and disagreements in your relationship. Things you do may annoy your husband or wife.  They may actually go as far as to leave the room.   Be sure to observe the changes in behavior that your spouse has towards other members of your family as well.

They want to buy a whole new wardrobe, in a way, reinventing themselves.  This works in conjunction with joining a gym to lose weight.  A huge sign of cheating is when a new wardrobe is purchased and when more skin is being shown.

Unusual behavior when your spouse is on the phone is another sign of cheating.  When they are talking on the phone near you, do they try to lower their voce or even leave the room?  Hanging up a phone quickly is another signal to watch for.  Be cautious of increased cell phone use, as many cheaters prefer to use their own personal phones, as opposed to family phones.

In addition to examining the behavior of your husband or wife, the behavior of your friends should also be examined.  The friends you share together may start acting differently towards you.  This is often because your shared friends might know more than you do.  Even if a friend does not outright tell you that your husband or wife is cheating, they may intentionally or unintentionally show you the signs.

These above mentioned signs may be an indicator that your spouse is cheating on you, but there may also be reasonable causes for these behavior changes.  For example, your spouse might want to look great for you and you alone, or they also may simply want to improve their health.

Since there are no guarantees that cheating could be going on, even with the above mentioned signs present, additional steps should be taken.  These steps can and should include monitoring cell phone calls, viewing the cell phone bill, or hiring a private investigator.  Never confront your husband or wife without the proper proof.  Be sure to get solid evidence of cheating, otherwise you could be creating a whole new problem in your relationship.

Does Your Man Watch Porn? (And Should You Worry?)

Ahhh, porn. It’s such a powerful force in our relationships, and it affects women and men in such different ways.
As for women, we start to worry that we don’t look hot/busty/sexy enough…
“My boyfriend looks at porn every single night. I’ve told him I don’t like it and he promised he would stop, but doesn’t he know I can just look at the history tab on his computer??! I don’t understand this, am I not sexy enough for him? I’ve even lost weight recently, and I still can’t compete.” — Mae S.
“I don’t have the boobs these stripper girls have. My gf is talking about implants, and now I’m wondering if I should get those too…” — Tresha G.
In Capture His Heart and Make Him Love You Forever, I explain why “beauty” is actually only the third most important thing to men and how you can become radiantly attractive to men without having to alter your physique or torture yourself at the gym.
Or we wonder if his watching porn is the same as cheating…
“I’m so tired of his porn that I want to walk away from our relationship. When I try to talk to him about it he accuses me of being insecure, but porn makes me feel like I’m not the one he really wants. He’d rather be with his fantasy women.” — Dara M.
Guys are watching a ton of porn! Should you be worried? Should you give ultimatums, or simply leave? Or is it really a problem in your relationship?
So many questions come in about porn, and it might be helpful to take a look at some of the ways men’s minds work when it comes to looking at naked women online…

A man’s sex drive runs on “rocket fuel” most of the time.

One of my guy friends told me his sex drive made him feel like he was riding a skateboard hitched to a drag racer – one that NEVER stops going.
That’s an image that stuck with me. I can imagine how crazy-out-of-control it must feel. Unless he keeps it in hand (hah), there’s gonna be collateral damage and it ain’t gonna be the drag racer that gets hurt.
The only way he can get the race car to pull off the track and into the pit for a breather…
The one surefire way to burn off some of that constant blast of sexual energy…
…is to ejaculate.
In *addition* to enjoying the hell out of having sex with you, guys masturbate to burn off fuel, when they want to relax, and when they’re restless or bored.
And hey, I’m all about a good, naughty quickie, but I don’t have time to drive over to where he works and give it to him under the desk every day. And while it’s fun once in a while, most women aren’t thrilled about being woken up in the middle of the night to give him a bj so he can get back to sleep. C’mon, there are some things a guy can handle on his own. And porn helps him do it.
The best balance here is when YOU get the best of his sexual energy, and the rest falls to him to take care of. If you want more sexual intimacy than you’re getting, believe me, communicate that and your man will be happy to oblige! If you want less, his ability to masturbate (and even if he’s not watching porn, it’s running in his head) is your friend.
You know things are out of balance when he consistently (and increasingly) chooses porn over real sex, or when he’s spending money you don’t both agree about on his online habit. Both of those are usually an indicator of a bigger problem in the relationship. In Capture His Heart, I teach you how to keep him totally focused on you as his absolute dream woman and how to figure out if he’s actually worthy of you. (LINK)
But if your relationship is actually in a reasonably good place, there’s probably no need to worry about him downloading porn videos to his phone to watch during his smoke break.

Do you have to compete with porn?

Hell, no. Hot, delicious sex (shoot, even routine sex) with a REAL naked woman is a bazillion times better than staring at a cold laptop screen and wishing, wishing…
And he’s a man. He loves to see naked women, including YOU. And you beat them all out because he gets to touch, taste, and thoroughly enjoy you, not just look…! You’re the queen, you always have been, and so long as you’re getting all the sexual attention you want, it’s a pretty good bet that porn will never replace you.
In addition, his watching porn has nothing to do with your breast size. Even if you had sex with him eleven times a day, he’d STILL want to see more naked women. More bouncy breasts, more temptingly rounded asses, more sexy ladies with no clothes on. It has nothing to do with YOUR beautiful curves, it has to do with his appetite.
Think of it like a cooking show. Girl, I can watch a cooking show all day long (and I don’t even have a tv, but I see these shows at the gym and at my friends’ houses). Don’t even get me started on those dudes who do the demos at the State Fair, because I’m mesmerized by them. Does it mean I don’t appreciate when my friends have me over for dinner? No. Does it mean I don’t feel treasured and cared for when my man takes me out to a really nice restaurant? Of course not, that would be silly.
But I am a foodie, and I just love me some cooking shows. Not as much as a great meal… But fortunately, I don’t have to choose. I can enjoy BOTH, and the cooking show will never mind when I turn it off to go enjoy some fresh local seafood with my guy. And I’m never going to turn down a date with a man for an hour with Paula Deen, and I don’t care HOW much butter she uses.

Is porn cheating?

I have one male friend who swears he never looks at porn. He feels that even his sexual fantasies should feature his woman as the (only) star of the show. That feels a bit extreme to me, and you’ll have your own opinion, I’m sure.
My personal position (I see you tryn’a sneak a joke in here) is that watching porn is not cheating so long as YOU are still the center of his real-life sexual universe.
Porn should be no different to him than your cinematic movie crushes (and the cooking show channel) are to you – entertaining, but not something to become a stalker over.
C’mon, Channing Tatum is good to look at (although I’m partial to Matt McConaughey myself), but would you rather spend more time in the movie theater… or snuggled up with a guy who is dying to kiss you all the way from the nape of your neck down to your sexy little instep, with a few slow and delicious stops in between?
That’s what I thought you’d say. Too bad for Channing and Matt.

Common Mistakes Cheaters Make In Relationships

Do you suspect that your spouse or your romantic partner is cheating on you?  If you do, you may be looking for ways to catch him or her in action.  Fortunately for you, this may be easier to do than you originally thought.  Why?  Because many cheaters make simple, yet costly mistakes in their relationships. 

As stated above, many cheaters make mistakes.  These mistakes can actually make it much easier for you to catch your cheating spouse or romantic partner.  A few of the common mistakes that cheaters, both men and women, make are outlined below.

Mistake # 1 – Believing They Won’t Get Caught

The biggest mistake that cheaters make is believing that they won’t get caught.  This often leads cheaters to become bolder, braver, as well as display reckless behavior.  Yes, it is true that some men and women are able to carry on affairs for years without their spouses or romantic partners knowing, but this is actually quite rare.  Due to the other mistakes that are listed below, most cheaters end up getting caught at one time or another.

Mistake # 2 – Believing Their Partner Will Forgive Them

If you are unfortunate enough to learn that your spouse or romantic partner is cheating on you, you may be surprised with their actions.  Many cheaters, regardless of gender, appear shocked when their significant other is upset.  This is because many cheaters expect their partners to automatically forgive them, like by writing off the cheating as a simple mistake. 

Mistake # 3 – Believing They Did or Are Doing Nothing Wrong

As previously stated, many cheaters expect not to get caught and those who do get caught expect to be forgiven right away.  These same individuals likely believe that they aren’t doing anything wrong.  The good news for you though is that men and women who assume they aren’t doing anything wrong by cheating, don’t always cover their tracks.  This means that it should be easier for you to catch a cheating spouse or romantic partner and take the appropriate action.

Mistake # 4 – Changing Their Appearance

When men and women have affairs, they often feel revived.  This often results in them wanting to take better care of themselves and improve their physical appearance.  Of course, it is important to remember that there may be a good reason for your significant other to get a makeover or change their wardrobe, but it is often a sign of cheating.  In fact, it is such a common and well-known sign that you have to wonder what your significant other is thinking when openly making these changes.

Mistake # 5 – Making Themselves Unavailable

When a husband, wife, boyfriend, or girlfriend suspects that their partner is cheating on them, they often try and contact their significant other whey they don’t know where they are.  This contact is often made by phone.  One mistake that cheaters make is not picking up the phone.  Yes, they are probably “busy,” but cheaters who answer the phone and come up with a plausible excuse for not being home or being out of reach, are likely to get away with cheating longer.

Mistake # 6 – Talking Too Much or Flaunting Affair

In keeping with the mistake of believing that they will get away with it, many cheaters make the mistake of talking about their affair or getting braver.  This may involve going out in public, as opposed to meeting in secret.  What many cheaters do not realize is that people talk, even the people who they believe they can trust and those closest to them.  In fact, this is how many people become aware of a cheating spouse or romantic partner; they hear the rumors that are flying.

The above mentioned mistakes are just a few of the many, but common mistakes that cheaters make.  Be on the lookout for a few of these mistakes, as they may be a good sign that you significant other is cheating on you.

5 Signs of a Cheating Husband

Spouses having affairs seems to be a common occurrence in today’s society.  In fact, they seem as if they are increasing in popularity.  Although it is often difficult to associate good news with a cheating husband, there is good news.  That good news is that it relatively easy for you to catch your cheating husband, especially when you know what signs to look for. 

As previously stated, there are signs that you can look for to help you determine if your spouse is cheating on you.  With that being said, some of these signs are so small that they often go unnoticed.  To help provide you with assistance, some signs that you will want to look for to see if your husband is cheating on you are highlighted below.

1 – Changed Appearance

If your husband has changed his appearance dramatically in one way or another, it can be a sign of cheating.  For example, he could change the style of clothing that he wears, either shave or decide to grow a beard, or start wearing cologne when he never had before.  Another major sign to look for, in terms of changed appearance, is if your husband takes extra steps to ensure that he looks his best for work or when going out with friends.

2 – Unusual Schedule Changes

If your husband has had some uncommon and unusual changes in his schedule, this could be a sign that he is cheating.  For example, does your husband normally not work overtime or stay late?  If he has started doing so all of a sudden, there is a good chance that cheating may be to blame.  What about common or unexpected business trips? 

In addition to changes with a work schedule, your husband’s friendships should also be closely examined.  When your husband spends time with his friends is he gone longer than usual?  Has a new friend or family member recently appeared in the picture? 

3 – A Loss of Interest in Family

One of the biggest signs of a cheating husband is the loss of internet in family.  Are you and your husband parents?  If so, has your husband completely lost interest in doing things with you or your children?  Your husband may be cheating if he would much rather spend time alone or with friends than with you or your family. 

4 – Displaying Guilt

If your husband really is having an affair, he is likely to be dealing with a large amount of guilt. This guilt can typically work two ways.  He could show you much more attention and give you more affection then he normally does.  On the other hand, he can display anger and frustration with you.  Anger often tends to give cheating husbands a reason not to feel so guilty.

 5 – Unusual Phone Use

Another good sign that your husband may be cheating on you is if he acts weird when using the phone.  Does your husband get quiet when you enter the room or does he hang-up the phone?  Is his cell phone being used to talk to “friends,” as opposed to your family phone?  If so, try to get hold of your husband’s cell phone to examine the call log or else checkout the phone bill.  This should be done because your husband may be cheating on you.

The above mentioned signs are just a few of the many signs that your husband may be a cheater.  With that said, the above mentioned signs are a few of the easiest to catch.  As difficult as it can be for you to learn that your husband is cheating on you, it is important to think about the long-term situation at hand.  Knowing is better than speculating.  In fact, your husband and his cheating ways can put your health at risk with the transmission of sex related diseases.  Also, if you are a parent, you have your children’s safety and wellbeing to take into consideration.