1 – A Change in Physical Appearance
Men and women who cheat often want to
impress or entice the individual they are having inappropriate relations
with. When doing so, they often change
or improve their appearance. If your
spouse starts paying more attention to their weight or buys new clothes, they
may be having an affair.
2 – Distance or Lack of Communication
Until you recently started noticing a
problem, how was your communication with your spouse? If your spouse has recently stopped talking to
you or distanced themselves from you at home, there is a good chance that they
may be cheating on you. This is because
they may be afraid of making a mistake and talking about their affair or they
may already be discussing their problems with someone else.
3 – They Constantly Work Late
Depending on your spouse and his or her
career, they really may have to work late.
With that said, be on the lookout for changes and use your best
judgment. Has your husband or wife all
of a sudden started working late? In
terms of using your best judgment, know what careers often call for late nights,
such as lawyers, doctors, and so forth.
4 – They Spend Too Much Time with Friends
Spending time with friends does not always
signal a cheater. In fact, healthy
relationships also depend on healthy outside friendships. With that said, be
sure to use your best judgment. Look for
the appearance of new friends or an increased amount of time. Has your husband or wife gone from spending
one night a week with friends to three or more?
5 – You Don’t Know Where They Are
When you are married, there is never really
any reason why you shouldn’t know where your spouse is, especially late at
night or for long periods of time. If
you do not know, chances are your spouse is cheating. When they arrive home, they better have a
good reason for being late or not letting you know where they were.
6 – You Hear Rumors
Many men and women are not careful about
cheating. This often involves them telling someone or someone seeing them out
on a date. In these types of situations,
people often talk. Listen to what you
hear. If people are telling you that
your spouse is cheating, it might be time to start listening.
7 – No Sex
Has your relationship recently become
sex-free or has the sex that you do have decreased in intensity and in
frequency. If so, there is a good chance
that your spouse is cheating on you. Men
and women who get sex elsewhere don’t always need to have it again when they
return home.
8 – You Are Accused of Cheating
In today’s society, cheating is a major
concern. If your spouse accuses you of
cheating, have you been displaying behavior that may lead them to that conclusion? If you haven’t, there is a good chance that
they are accusing you of cheating to make themselves feel less guilty.
9 – Hearing the Phrase “We are Just Friends”
The “just friends,” phrase is a big sign of
a cheater. As with all other
friendships, it is important to use your best judgment. If the friend of the opposite sex and are
they are a newly acquired friend? If so,
something may be up.
10 – A Bad Feeling
Bad feelings are not something that should
be easily dismissed. If you have reason
to believe that your husband or wife is cheating, they may be. If you do not want to be in a relationship
with a cheater, it is important for you to follow your heart. Take additional
steps to see if they are truly cheating.
These steps may involve hiring a private investigator or spying.
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