The Cheating Boyfriend Test: Is There Such a Thing?

Are you a female who thinks that your boyfriend is cheating on you?  If you do, you may be looking to reaffirm that your suspicions are true.  While many other women in your shoes turn to spying on their boyfriend or the hiring of a private investigator, you may be interested in taking a cheating boyfriend test.  But wait, is there even such a thing?

                     

Yes, there are tests that are called cheating boyfriend tests.  They may also be referred to as cheating boyfriend quizzes.  As for what they are, you will find that it depends.  They tend to target teenagers and young adults, like college students.  As for how they help you determine if your boyfriend is cheating, it is done by asking a series of questions.  Your answers to these questions will have an impact on your score, which means that your boyfriend may be cheating on you.

Although cheating boyfriend tests do sound kind of fun and neat, there are some important things you should know about them.  You do not want to make the mistake of breaking up with your boyfriend, especially if you are in a long-term relationship, just because someone’s boyfriend test says that yours is cheating.  This may end up being an embarrassing and costly mistake on your part.

The questions that are found on most cheating boyfriend tests are simple.  In fact, you could say that they are too simple.  Common questions asked include does he accuse you of cheating?  Has your boyfriend changed his appearance?  Has your boyfriend started hanging out more with his friends?  Although these questions do signal the sign of a cheater, they are not guarantees.

Speaking of no guarantees, that is why you are urged to proceed with caution.  Just because a boyfriend cheating test claims that your boyfriend does cheat, it really doesn’t mean that he does.  With that said, it also works the other way around too.  Basically, you should not invest too much into what a five question quiz tells you.  If you are truly suspicious of your boyfriend, consider approaching them and voicing your concerns.

Boyfriend cheating tests, although they do not have guarantees, are popular.  You should be able to find them online and free of charge.  There are, however, websites that want you to pay to take a cheating boyfriend quiz.  Do not do this, as it will likely end up being a waste of your money.  If you do want to do a cheating boyfriend quiz, perform a standard internet search with the phrases “cheating boyfriend test,” or “free cheating boyfriend tests.”

In keeping with costs, it is important to avoid cheating boyfriend tests that can be sent to your cell phone.  Most of these cell phone text messaging programs, like ones that allow you to receive jokes and horoscopes, are money wasters.  In fact, they could even be considered scams.  To get a boyfriend quiz delivered to your cell phone, you may have to pay a monthly or a text message fee.  You may not even get the results until paying even more money.  Stay away from these traps.

It is also important to note that boyfriend cheating tests, especially those that you find online, are not developed by professionals.  Yes, professional relationship experts do have a serious of questions that resemble these quizzes, but most of what you will find online is written by everyday individuals, just like you and me.  For that reason, do not put too much into what your cheating boyfriend quiz results are, as the information is likely unreliable and not researched.

As a recap, cheating boyfriend tests are easy to find online, with a standard internet search.  Avoid having cheating boyfriend tests sent to your cell phone, as they can get costly.  As fun as cheating boyfriend tests can be to fill out, especially when surfing the internet with a bunch of your friends, remember to not rely too heavily on their results.

3 common signs your partner may be cheating on you

An unfaithful husband, cheating wife, any kind of disloyal partner, is an ugly prospect. And that feeling of being betrayed by someone we thought we could trust more than anyone else is one of the worst. People who discover their partners have been unfaithful to them go through a hurricane of different emotions – anger, sadness, shame, dejection, sometimes even relief. It’s a grieving process, not of a person that’s died, but of a relationship and level of trust that’s instantly disintegrated. In short, it sucks.

But before you can begin “grieve” that loss of trust, or simply throw caution to the wind and ditch your partner for good, you need to make absolutely sure your reaction will be 100% warranted. You need to know without doubt whether your lover has, in fact, double-crossed you by looking for, finding, and partaking in, an affair.

The only guaranteed way of knowing this, aside from finding damning physical evidence or seeing the affair with your own eyes (both pretty rare), is by hearing a confession straight from the horse’s mouth, by communicating your suspicions with your partner and listening to what they have to say – however heartbreaking or relieving their response might be. But before you take that big step, there are a few simpler and smaller steps you can take to make the whole process, the whole “investigation” and confrontation of your partner, easier and more factually accurate.

The first thing you should do is look for some of the most common signs/groups of signs people produce when they cheat. I’ve listed 3 of them below. Read over and think about each and carefully consider if they apply to you, your partner and your relationship.

1. Changes in sex drive and sexual behaviour.

Sex is almost always an integral part of a happy and healthy relationship between two people. So when one of the two, regardless of whether it’s the guy or the girl, begins to cheat, it doesn’t come as any surprise that changes in the way they feel about having sex with their partner can be brought about. There are two main ways these changes can manifest themselves. When the cheater initially begins their affair, they may – out of guilt and in an effort to avoid the newly formed affair being rumbled – actually increase the amount of attention they pay their real partners in bed. Conversely, and usually a little while after the affair has begun, the cheater may appear to have a loss of sex drive. They, for some reason, seem to not want to be intimate with you as much as they used to. Once again, this can be attributed to guilt, but more often it’s to do with a fear they’ll reveal their infidelity through they way they behave before, during and after having sex with you.

2. Peculiar changes in habits & schedule.

 When people cheat, they invariably change their behaviour and/or habits in some way, small or large. The reason they cannot avoid these alterations is because, no matter how infrequently or secretly they see the person they’re having an affair with, they MUST – at some point or another – go out of their way to do so (and thereby break or change habits and behaviour). So, look for recent and pronounced modifications in the times they come home/leave the house (and whether the changed times ‘repeat’ weekly), increased usage of the phone or computer for no obvious/innocent reason, and other differences in the way your partner acts and behaves. You know your partner’s old habits and ways of living better than anyone, so draw from that knowledge to compare how they might have changed them and to decide if the changes are to be taken as possible indications of betrayal.

3. Miscellaneous indicators of infidelity.

Lastly, there’s the group of infidelity indicators that don’t fit in any other box or under any other title. They’re the things you notice, question and cannot innocently explain away. They’re the things you spot but almost choose to forget because you’re so unsure of what they may or may not mean and whether, ultimately, they are true signs that your partner is cheating on you with someone else. Here are just a couple of miscellaneous indications of infidelity:

A. Your partner no longer seems to get angry with you when in the past they always seemed to be picking a fight or getting worked up over any tiny issue. Cheaters often ‘let their partners off’ because they want as little confrontation (which could lead to a discovery on your part) as possible.

B. She or he frequently shifts the focus onto you. Cheaters often asks their partners more questions about how their day went, how they’re feeling, etc, again, to shift the attention away from them and their guilt.

Remember, when you suspect your partner may be cheating, always take the smaller steps – by looking for the kinds of subtle signs listed above – before taking the biggest step of all: confronting them. Doing so will give you the very best chance of a happy, or at least a more manageable, final outcome.

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